...the opposite of love isn't hate. It's indifference. And if you hate me, that means you still care and we're still connected...

Bree Van de Kamp
Desperate Housewives - There Is No Other Day

I think it suffices to say you are not cruel.

C'mon... with age comes wisdom is an old wive's tale.

Why waste your emotions on negativity on one person when you just need to look around to see all of us who care about you, babe.